Sex is supposed to be an amazing thing. However, some people don’t really know what they’re supposed to do or how to do it. Also, the sexual experience may vary, depending on whether you’re into regular or BDSM stuff or you prefer to find your hookups on biker dating websites. Anyways, there are some things that are universal and work in about 99% of the cases, such as these 9 surprising sex tips that will help you become good in bed.
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Birthday Suit
One of the best ways to kick things off with your partner is to wait for them naked in bed. This will show them that you’re 100% ready for what’s about to happen and that you couldn’t wait to get started so much that you preemptively got rid of your clothes.
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Sexting
You can set the mood by sending a couple of raunchy texts before foreplay even walks into the scene. You can opt out for something like “Can’t wait to see you naked” or something dirtier like “I want to feel your *** on my ***, NOW!” Just insert body parts in this message and you’ll see your partner rushing home for a bed rendezvous with you.
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Long Foreplay
Foreplay is one of the most important parts of any sexual encounter, as it sets the stage for everything that comes next. It gets both of you fired up properly for the main event, which is exactly why you need to have a lot of foreplay involved if you want sex to be as awesome as it can.
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Playing Out a Fantasy
If you really want to make your lovemaking something to remember and if you really know your partner well, feel free to play out their wildest fantasy. Combined with the amazing foreplay we’ve already mentioned, a sexual session like this can become something you two will talk about for years to come (pun intended).
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Toys are for Grownups, Too!
Most people strongly believe that toys are only viable when a couple is practicing BDSM, fetishism or some other kinky variation of sexual intercourse. However, this type of toys can be used for any occasion and has proven to be quite efficient when it comes to spicing things up in bed.
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Just Oral, No Strings Attached
It’s natural to give head and expect head in return. But what if we told you that it’s even hotter when you perform oral sex on your partner without expecting them to give you anything in return?
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Blindfolds
Without dabbling into BDSM, you too can bring in a blindfold that will make your partner’s sexual experience become more intense. Without sight, they will be left only to feel and hear what’s happening, which makes the coitus a genuine explosion of carnal pleasures.
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Spanking
Nobody ever cried when they got spanked in bed – some friendly spanking is always a good idea, especially once things get really heated up.
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Praise Your Partner
Everyone can agree that giving compliments is great while receiving them is even better. That’s exactly why you should let your partner know just how sexy they are while you guys are ‘doing it’ and how well they know exactly what to do and when to do it.
