Have you heard the latest buzz? If not, maybe it’s time you pick up a vibrator from your favorite sex shop! Introducing a sex toy into your sex life can be daunting for some couples. Although many see vibrators, dildos, and other toys as a solo adventure, there’s no reason the two of you can’t play with them together.

There’s a good chance that he’s not interested, but there are ways to go about introducing toys so it’s less intimidating for him. To get started, read this list of suggestions.
Talk About It

One of the most common questions he may have, but may not ask is, “Does she even need me anymore?” Men aren’t the only ones with fragile egos, so save your judgement. It’s important to assure him that using toys in bed is supposed to be fun for both of you. Assure him that it’s not about replacing him and the toy isn’t better at sex than he is.

Pick Out the Toys Together
Have fun with this part! The two of you can go online, or go to a nearby sex shop to pick out your first toy. You can start with a small strap-on vibrator that just stimulates your clitoris while you two have sex. Many women need a little help with orgasming, and penetration doesn’t always do it for us.

Why stop at vibrators, though?
The more the two of you experiment with toys, the more creative you can get with the toys you buy. Why not get a vibrating ring that he wears while you two have sex? It should increase pleasure for both of you. And there’s no reason you can’t use the toys on him.

Start Slowly
Once the two of you are ready to turn your bedroom into a play room, you can branch out, if you’re interested, and look into toys just for him, or just for you. If he wants to be intimately involved with your orgasm, you can try a vibrator with a remote control, that way he knows he’s the one turning you on, and up, and over that peak.

Playing with sex toys doesn’t have to be a solitary event. And your man needs to know that you aren’t turning to sex toys because he’s bad in bed – and it’s up to you to make sure he knows that. This is all assuming the worst. Assuming the best – he’ll be eager and ready to explore the many ways he can please you again and again!

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