Everyone’s sex life could use some improvement. Regardless of what your girlfriends tell you, nobody has a perfect sex life, not if they’ve had sex more than five times with the same guy. As time passes, people need to spice up things in the bedroom, to keep the spark alive. Even so, there are things that women do wrong involuntarily, and which might be doing more harm than they know

The Touching

With very few exceptions, men love women who are in control and go for what they want. While women are more passionate about sensual touches and lots of foreplay, men appreciate assertiveness more, and a woman that goes straight for what she wants is extremely hot in their perspective. 

There are men who actually complain that women don’t do enough to initiate intercourse. They think that women just assume that because the penis is erect, it doesn’t require any more stimulation. That’s a common misconception, which can literally be fixed in a matter of minutes.

So, don’t be afraid to go for it. And by “it”, we mean “IT”.

The Shame

If you randomly ask 100 women if they love their bodies, most of them will tell you at least something they’d like to change about their physical appearance. Ladies, when you focus on your body flaws in bed, you inhibit your own passion and natural sex drive.

Trust me, men aren’t really that worried about these flaws, and are way more “into the moment” compared to women. That’s probably one of the reasons why men enjoy seek so much and seek it so often: not only aren’t they that preoccupied with how they look, but they let that primal instincts surface and allow themselves to enjoy sex to the fullest.

Unless you get some very direct complains (we all know that men often lack the subtlety to tell us things), it’s safe to assume that your sexual partner isn’t preoccupied with that hair on your leg that you forgot to pluck with your tweezers. 

The Technique

Women are perfectionists, there’s no doubt about it. They are also highly preoccupied with being good in bed, and that might actually get in the way of being good in bed. Women tend to feel very anxious about the way they’re trying to please men sexually, and this anxiety gets in the way of true relaxation and enjoying the moment.

You don’t need porn or advice on how to perform oral sex: it can literally be a trial and error thing. When you do things your way, you become more natural in bed, which makes you the “easy to remember, hard to forget” type of woman. 

Also, you should never be afraid of asking your partner what they like and dislike. Every person has different sexual preferences and likes to be touched in a different way. 

And, while you’re at it, don’t forget to compliment him, because it can be way more arousing than you think. When engaging in intercourse, women want to feel desired. They want to know that the man they’re standing next to would just tear their clothes apart and have sex with them right there and then. 

On a similar note, men also want to feel desired. What boost the male ego more than knowing he is capable of satisfying the women he likes? Just by looking into his eyes and whispering a simple “I want you” can do miracles.

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