If you have ever visited a porn website in this lifetime, you must have come across a couple of role-playing videos. Pizza delivery guy – hot chick that can’t afford to pay for her food. Nurse – desperate patient with potential erectile dysfunction. High school student – hot teacher.
While it may seem like “something for the movies”, there are couples who actually do a lot of role-playing in real life as well. You might it funny, embarrassing, desperate, or something that you’d like to try. Whatever the case, there are some really cool benefits of opening up to the idea.
Being Who You Want
Probably the best part about role-playing is that you can finally be who you want, and ask your partner to be someone you’ve always wanted to have sex with. From plumber to policeman, there’s no shame in asking your partner to fulfill a specific role.
What’s more, try to look at this whole role-playing scenario from a psychological point of view. Throughout the entire day, you have a 9-to-5 job where you constantly have to listen to everybody complain, or try to solve a zillion problems that just drain your stamina. Or, you might have to be the “bossy” type of person who always has to make sure everything is in order, everyone is meeting deadlines, and trying not to make everyone hate you in the process.
When role-playing, you can be the complete opposite of that. It gives you the chance to play a more dominant or submissive role, giving you a taste of power or putting you in a more docile position.
Learning more about Who He Is
Men are hunters, and despite all the progressive movements and new-age ideas that you’re now seeing more of, men will always have this gene of “getting what they want”. But some of the man’s desires are as just as hidden as a women’s, and making them surface isn’t exactly a walk in the park.
With role-playing, you are creating an open and safe space for men to also talk about what they fantasize about. What’s more, it gives you the chance to be a part of their wild fantasies. Consequently, this creates a whole new level of intimacy between you guys, because you’d be surprised to see how good sex brings two people closer together.
Lose the Preconception
Just because your partner wants you to dress up and pretend to be someone else, does not mean he doesn’t like who you really are. In fact, one of the greatest fears that women have when it comes to opening up to role-play is hearing what they better half fantasizes about.
If you can look me in the eyes and tell me you have never dreamt about sleeping with George Clooney, a sexy stripper, or whoever else floats your boat, I’ll give you a golden medal on the spot. But because you have these fantasies, doesn’t mean that you’d actually sleep with the stripper if the occasion ever came. This goes both ways, always remember that.
