It doesn’t matter what type of relationship you’re in or which kind of partner you’re looking for, because people who are married, those who are still figuring out what their preferred type is and even those who are looking for one on a cougar dating website have all one thing in common – sex.
Needless to say, not everyone knows how to do it properly. Even though we all love it (at least those of us that have tried it), making love or having hot, wild, unbridled sex is something that is both innate and something that can be learned. In that regard, here are our tips on how to properly use praise in sex.
Know Your Lines
A lot of people mix sexual praise with just talking during sex, while some even believe that the only thing that qualifies as sex praise is dirty talk. We’re here to bust these myths and explain all the ways you can praise your partner’s sexual capabilities and why it’s important to do so.
We’ll start off with talking. This is by far the easiest way to let your partner know that you’re really into what they’re doing in bed and it is the most common form of sex praise.
For example, you can use phrases like “oh, that’s good” or “wow, I love that” when your partner hits a spot that makes you feel particularly good in that moment. After the main act is complete, use the cuddle time to express just how satisfied you are and how well your partner did during the act.
Another great way to praise your partner during sex is breathing, moaning and body language. Nothing shows just how much you’re enjoying yourself when you’re unable to control your body 100% when your partner kisses or touches you in a specific way.
You can use your hands, eyes, legs and every other part of your body to show enjoyment, while you’re also allowed and encouraged to change your breathing or let out a moan whenever your partner “hits the spot.” This might be a bit more indirect than talking, but it actually lets your partner know that they’re doing good and that you’re really liking what’s happening so far.
Why is it Important?
Praise in sex isn’t only good for building your partner’s ego. Even though it may seem like praising your partner’s sexual skills is doing nothing more than giving them an ego boost on the surface, that moment when you let them know that you’re really into making love to them is the moment when your relationship with them becomes stronger.
There have been numerous examples where a couple was seemingly created for each other, but when it came to sex, they couldn’t be more incompatible. Sex is a very important aspect of romantic relationship, which means letting your partner know just how well they’re doing is of crucial importance if you’re planning on staying with them.
Bottom line, feel free to tell your partner just how much you enjoy everything you’re doing in bed with them, and you can rest assured that they’ll be coming back for more.
