All strong and fulfilling relationships are based on trust, and this doesn’t just include two consenting adults in a romantic partnership. The relationship between a parent and a child, your relationship with your family members and friends, and any kind of work relationship is based on mutual trust that helps overcome the daily challenges. Being honest in the bedroom ensures you get to enjoy the things you like, and not have to deal with the things that make you uncomfortable (anyone who’s into cougar dating can attest to this fact). Clearly, sexual honesty is far more than being faithful to your partner – it’s all about communicating your likes and dislikes, which ensures a more pleasurable experience and a higher level of intimacy.

Honesty about Sexual History

Being honest about your past sexual encounters with a new partner is beneficial in more ways than one. First of all, speaking honestly about the risks of transmitting STDs is a sign of maturity and care that is greatly appreciated.

Second of all, sharing with a new partner brings you closer together because it is a sign of trust – especially if what is shared is embarrassing or not something either partner would be proud of. On the other hand, it is a well-known fact that many people are not completely honest about the number of sexual partners they’ve had. Men tend to add a few imaginary sexual encounters to their list, while women magically make their lists shorter than what is actually true.

When you share your ‘number’, and it turns out you’ve had more sexual partners than him, this can be a kind of an awkward situation because he can feel insecure, and you can end up feeling like you’ve done something wrong.

Be the case as it may, sharing definitely means you’re putting the power into your partner’s hands to hurt you or betray you, which is as great a sign of trust as can possibly be found in relationships, and a sure way to intimacy and a fulfilling sense of belonging.

Talking about Sex is a Turn-on

There is no greater gift a female partner can give to her male partner than to openly talk about her sexual desires.

Guys go absolutely crazy when their girls tell them exactly what to do, when to do it, and how to do it, provided said girls aren’t being mean or rude about it. It gives men an enormous satisfaction to see sexual excitement and pleasure of the faces of their partners, and men who approach sex with great attention and care love to please their partners to no end.

Needless to say, they can’t do that unless they know what gets their partners off, which is why openly talking about sex doesn’t only lead to the woman’s pleasure but it also ensures the man is a happy camper, too.

Obviously, faking orgasms totally defeats the purpose as it is one of the least honest acts committed by women in the bedroom, and one in which nobody wins. Sometimes meeting sexual desires takes a long time, but there is no way you can ever get there unless your partner knows what those desires are.

 

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