Do you find that the erogenous stimulation you’re receiving during sex just doesn’t quite cut the mustard? Sure, it’s great to have a guy who can find your g-spot, but let’s be fair – there are tons of other places regularly ignored that can really get the juices flowing, quite literally. But how do you find those erogenous zones so you can point them out to your partner and get the benefit of full body stimulation? Take a look at these common erogenous zone and see if you can identify which ones work for you.
Above the Shoulders
Starting at the top and working down is a great way to build excitement. Try these areas first.
- Ears – they have a massive amount of nerve endings, making them super sensitive to touch. While tongues and teeth may be excellent choices, simply tracing the shape of the ear with light fingers can stimulate.
- Nape – a lot of women can turn to putty with a light touch or breath across the nape of the neck because there are so many nerve endings in this spot. To give the hint, tilt your neck and leave it open to exploration.
- Lips – this may seem like a simple one, but there’s a reason we get all hot and bothered from a really good kiss. Don’t overlook the power of the lips – forgetting to kiss in lieu of other stimulation can lead to far less interest all around.
Meet in the Middle
Don’t underestimate the torso, and we’re not talking about nipples
- Armpits – it may seem odd or taboo, but as long as you’re clean, it shouldn’t be an issue. Soft caresses and swirling fingers in the underarms can really lead to a thrill, since it releases the endorphins often brought out with tickling and laughter.
- Stomach – you can even stimulate the g-spot if you take the time to explore the area of the stomach between the navel and the pelvis. There are tons of tingly sensations available in this area, too, that build anticipation.
- Hands – sucking on fingers, tracing knuckles – because hands are so important in stimulating someone else, they become a great signal of erotic desires.
Below the Belt
And yet, we’re still not talking about sex organs. There are plenty of other places to pay attention to below the belt.
- Pubic mound – while the word ‘mound’ doesn’t sound sexy, it certainly feels that way. Why? Because it’s connected to the genitals and has a lot of nerve endings. Plus, it leads to anticipation due to the proximity to the clitoris and the vagina.
- Feet – some people have trouble with letting others touch their feet, but if you can get past this, your partner can use the pressure points on the soles of your feet to create incredible sensation that will bring you intense pleasure.
- Inner thighs – and not just because of their proximity to ‘home plate’. Nibbling, nipping, kissing, licking – are all great ways to get your right there, on the verge of orgasm.
Don’t settle for the same old routine. Make use of all your erogenous zones, and use them on your partner as well. You’ll find things sparking hotter and faster than ever between you.
