Men have Erogenous Zones too! Women complain sometimes that men only focus on the most obvious places on our bodies during sex, but sometimes, ladies, we’re just as guilty. Sure, men love it when you cop a feel, whether you’re stroking his shaft or cupping his balls. But when it comes to driving men wild, there are just as many subtle and less obvious ways to be just as intimate, alarming, and arousing. Consider some of the other places you can touch your man – even in public – to get him to the point of obsession, so he can’t think of anything but falling into bed sweaty and naked with you.
Anything Above the Shoulders
Does it sound strange? Let’s take a look at what we like as women one more time. Don’t we love it when he rains kisses on our throat or nibbles at our ears? Or when he breathes across that really sensitive spot just under your ear so it tickles across the back of your neck? Why would men be any different? And let’s remember that their faces are pretty sensitive, which is why they sometimes get rashes when shaving. Take advantage of that, kissing and licking over his jaw, tracing your fingers along his cheek, and leaving butterfly kisses over every inch from his brow to his collarbone. You’ll find him hard and ready to go when you’ve barely gotten started.
Nipples
This is an area that might seem obvious, though most men will deny it outright. Because there’s a stigma that nipples are a ‘female’ erogenous zone, men shy away from the fact that paying attention to their nipples can really get them excited. For your part, consider what you like having done to yours, what arouses you. Start slow, flicking your tongue over one or circling with your finger. As you notice his reaction – a tremble, head tilting back, a sharp intake of breath – that shows he’s enjoying it, grow bolder. Nip with your teeth, swirl with your tongue, and pinch and tug gently. Chances are, he’s going to arch his back and flex his hips with a similar excitement to what you would show if things were reversed.
Inner Thighs
After talking about nipples, should this really surprise you? The nerve endings here are sensitive, and the attention you give is not only sensual but promising, being so close to the landing zone. Think about the feeling you get when he trails from your inner thigh along the crease where your leg connects and then up to your abdomen, another sorely underutilized spot to build desire. Then, offer the same treatment to him – grazing nails and flicking your tongue, swirling fingers and tongue, brushing your lips or even using your teeth to stimulate him.
Taking the time to find the ‘extra’ places that really tear your partner to shreds can only heighten the pleasure of the experience and result in better, more vigorous and fulfilling sex, especially if he takes the hint and returns the favor.
