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Coleen Singer – Sexpert at Sssh.com

Sex is always a topic of discussion because when you get down to the nitty gritty, we’re always looking for ways to improve it. We want to try new things, but there are so many ‘taboos’ and ‘stigmas’ related to sex that it’s hard to convince ourselves that we are ‘free to be me’.

Maybe it’ll help to know what other women are doing. Not only will this give you some ideas on how to spice up your sex life with some new invigoration; it can also help you free your mind and open up new possibilities you might not have considered in the past.

The Digital Age

A number of things have changed with the availability of new technology and the advancement of the digital world. Consider the new virtual reality options, some of which even have a ‘scent-release’ attachment so you can create a very realistic feel during your fantasy by surrounding yourself with the scent that pleases you.

But that’s not even the most common trend for women today when it comes to sex. There have been remote control sex toys for years, but now, you can have some interactive pleasure with your partner, even from long distances – referred to as teledildonics. There are plenty of vibrating panties that your partner can control when you’re out to dinner or walking through the supermarket to add a dangerous edge to the mix. But even better, if you have a long distance relationship, there are programs that allow you to virtually please each other with interactive sex toys that respond to commands by Bluetooth and via app.

Edging

This one doesn’t require any technology or expense, but it does require great discipline. Edging is the practice of being in the middle of intercourse and getting right to the edge of orgasm – then stopping. After calming, you start again and repeat the practice over and over, as many times as possible before you and your partner can’t stand it anymore. This builds the arousal and the anticipation factor, and when you finally give in, the orgasm will be mind-blowing in strength and satisfaction.

Interactive Parties

Sex parties used to make women giggle, but that’s changing. Rather than being girls-only, newer party ideas invite couples for more than just an exploration of the latest toys on the market ‘in theory.’ Rather, there are options for trying things ‘in actuality.’ Consider that you can attend a cabaret party or erotic dinner that is experiential, or you can attend a workshop or even take a weekend retreat. They even have naked yoga to help you explore your body and your sexuality. If you aren’t comfortable participating, check one out as a ‘voyeur’ of sorts the first time and see what you think!

Professional Help

As women, we tend to stay away from ‘therapy’ sessions on sex. In this day and age, the idea of Dr. Ruth makes us wrinkle our noses, and anything that actually ‘shows’ us what to do can be reminiscent of pornography – which is actually becoming more popular among women these days, too.

But being humble, you know that it doesn’t matter how good you are in bed, you can always do better. So, for those looking for a real sex education the likes of which they don’t teach in public schools, companies like Babeland (NYC and Seattle) offer classes on the art of sexual practices. Learn how to give a better blow job, find your G-spot, or try new positions. Think of it as cooking classes for the bedroom chef, and know that you would not be alone in the endeavor!

What Lies Beneath

In the past, lingerie has been pretty, frilly, lacy garb that’s highly uncomfortable and worn only on special occasions when you really want to get laid. Now, though, with non-mainstream habits coming more and more to light, there are so many more options, and lingerie lines have come out with options for every flavor. In fact, lingerie can be an every day wear now, with more comfortable options as well.

Consider that some lingerie is even made with such fashion sense that it can be worn on the outside. In addition, there are sexy options for men, as well, and with leather and lace truly coming to an understanding with each other, you can see just how enticing your man looks in something of your choice.

Things are changing, especially for women as we assert ourselves and stand up for what we want. Consider that these are just a few of the trends in the sexual world for women, and you’ll find yourself ready to explore your options for sexual freedom and exploration in the modern age.

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